Unusual Children
Raising independent, curious, and remarkable kids.
"Every child is unusual. There is only one of them in the entire world. That is the whole point."
A decade of one mother's field notes — on language, food, curiosity, and independence. Not a book of rules. A book of experiences, from a mother who paid very close attention for a very long time.
No baby talk, ever. From day one, we spoke to him the way we speak to anyone else.
Children respect honesty far more than they respect authority.
The goal is not perfection. The goal is direction.
Forty-nine chapters, birth to leaving home
It began as notes on a phone when the youngest of three children was six months old. Over nearly a decade, those notes became eight parts — the record of a different way of raising a person.
Only you know if you brushed your teeth properly
One morning Peter came to me and said, "I brushed my teeth like you taught me — have a look, did I do it properly?"
I said, "Only you know if you brushed your teeth properly."
He looked at me. He turned around. I heard him go back to the bathroom — brushing, rinsing, checking, brushing again.
That small moment is everything. With one sentence, he became the judge of his own effort. Not me. He was empowered to decide whether what he had done was good enough. He decided it was not quite right, so he fixed it. Not because I told him to. He wanted to.
That is the beginning of self-motivation. Not gold stars, not praise charts, not reward systems. Just a child deciding, on their own, that they want to do better.
Mira Cameron
Nobody in this house is allowed to say the word easy. Or hard. This book is about what happens next.
She is not a psychologist or an academic. She is a mother who paid very close attention for a very long time. She has three children, two grown stepsons and a youngest son she raised outside the mainstream school system from birth, with languages and relentless curiosity as the foundation of his education.
She began this book as notes on her phone when her youngest was six months old. It took her nearly a decade to write the first edition, and she is still adding to it. She lives with her husband and her youngest son, who is currently studying for exams in three different languages and has expressed an interest in winning a Nobel Prize before he turns twenty. She does not think this is unreasonable.
Unusual Children is her first book. Mira Cameron is not an expert. She is paying attention.
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Keep paying attention, together
Mira writes between the chapters on Substack, and shares moments along the way on Instagram. Subscribe for new stories and notes, by email.